The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, And Love «2024»

: Transformation starts with acknowledging the trauma caused by being told "real men" don't feel or cry.

: hooks defines patriarchy as a political-social system that insists on male dominance maintained through "psychological terrorism and violence". She emphasizes that it harms men by forcing them into emotional stoicism and a perpetual cycle of violence. The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love

: Instead of viewing vulnerability as weakness, it should be seen as a sign of strength and a requirement for genuine intimacy. : Transformation starts with acknowledging the trauma caused

: From childhood, boys are often punished for vulnerability. This results in "emotional numbness," leading to isolation and an inability to form healthy, intimate relationships. The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love