Many women describe their first encounters as "explosive" or "satisfying" in ways they hadn't experienced before. Common elements include:

: Disregard advice from mainstream magazines or adult websites; real intimacy is rarely like the movies.

: Intimacy often grows out of deep friendship or intense flirting.

: You don't have to guess what your partner likes. Asking questions like "Does this feel good?" or "What do you like?" is a sign of confidence, not inexperience.

: Take your time with physical touch and proceed gradually.

: Don't get "tunnel vision" about your performance. Pay attention to your partner's moans or body language, but also check in with yourself to see if you are enjoying it. Common First Experiences