Narrow your options down to the top two or three that most closely align with your core values.
When your choices align with your values, life feels "right." When they clash—like taking a high-paying job that requires you to compromise your integrity—you experience cognitive dissonance. This is that nagging feeling of being "off-track." 2. Frames: The Lens of Reality
The trick is that we often have too many choices—a phenomenon known as the . When we are overwhelmed by options, we tend to freeze or make a choice that leaves us feeling less satisfied, wondering if one of the other 50 options was better. Bringing It All Together
To make better decisions, you have to look at the interplay:
Logically, these are identical. Emotionally, they are worlds apart. We are often swayed not by the facts themselves, but by how those facts are "framed" to us by the media, our peers, or even our own internal inner critic. 3. Choices: The Final Output
Values are the fundamental beliefs that guide your behavior. They are the "why" behind your "what." If you value , you’ll likely choose a stable 9-to-5. If you value freedom , you might find yourself freelancing or traveling the world.
